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jadewhittaker2006

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City: Lincoln
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Member Since: Jul 29, 2006
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Views : 1668  Oct 26, 2015 4:29am

Hi all a photographer i worked with around 8 year ago in scunthorpe name david white keeps hounding me y on earth he keeps messaging me and still has my number after all this time is insane i have told him too get lost he just wont get the message i have blocked him but yet he seems too message me on different numbers bit of advice stay clear from this tog

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 pep

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City: Northeast / North Yorkshire
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nasty situation and not one you should have to put up with..

block him, done.. too late now but why some people use a pre-pay mobile number for texts.. you can just change mobile number now & then..

report to admin?
leave a bad reference on his page..



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kazstudio

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City: Sudbury
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RE: stalking tendencies for 8 years Oct 26, 2015 10:04am

The Police will help you.
They take this sort of thing very seriously.


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Biker_Goth

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City: Thorne
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hi Jade, Just read same forum post on Purestorm, im on there as well..Im based in Thorne but used to live in scunthorpe 2007-2012,i dont recognise the name but i didnt know many togs anyway, id suggest you contact police cause it IS against the law.Do you have his old numbers/contact info..Have you a FB page in same name or in same name that he may know?.If police dont help then maybe the world wide web can,have you googled him? try and turn the tables on him....if i can help in anyway??might twig something in my mind......but best of luck,take care.Phil

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Keltica

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City: Twickenham
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You do realise that there is now an offense for stalking behavior, see http://www.cps.gov.uk/legal/s_to_u/stalking_and_harassment/

Give him the link, and demand that if he contacts you again, you will go to the police.



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jadewhittaker2006

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Hi all i have now sent him a message stating i have passed his details on to police and if there is anymore contact they will be getting in touch and possibly an harrassment order but i mean 8 years how in earth does someone manage too keep a number for that long it beats me lol

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Keltica

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That's why he is a stalker, they have the patience and discipline to think of the long game, their fantasists and sometimes that can lead to violence.


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 Diceman199

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City: Uxbridge
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RE: stalking tendencies for 8 years Oct 27, 2015 12:52pm

If you've told him not to contact you then it's also an offense under the Telecommunications act 1984 for him to do this via phone / text.

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OriginalImage

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City: Gidea Park
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You can also report this to your telephone provider as a stalker and they can block his number....

The illiteracy of the future will be ignorance not of reading or writing, but of photography.
No, I am not rude, I just say what everyone else hasn't the balls to say

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Roddie

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City: London
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quoting post from OriginalImage:

You can also report this to your telephone provider as a stalker and they can block his number....


Perhaps I'm missing something. How would that plan work when it's already been demonstrated in this thread that the culprit uses a variety of numbers?

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OriginalImage

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City: Gidea Park
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In order to get a conviction, you require hard solid evidence, I know after a model in Glasgow went through this some time ago and despite getting him into court twice, he continued.

The Phone Companies have some lovely equipment, so if he calls, regardless of number, she presses 1 on her phone, the call is automatically logged as a nuisance call - BT also offers a similar service if you have a home telephone phone you receive nuisance calls on.

At the end of the day, despite the grief, she needs EVIDENCE and the only way to get that is to ensure everyone she deals with KNOWS ABOUT IT and she records every call, email, or whatever other means he may attempt to use and she needs to report it to the Police not only in the area she lives, but also the area HE lives - if it goes to Court, he will appear in his local one, therefore local plod needs to be aware of his silly games.

The illiteracy of the future will be ignorance not of reading or writing, but of photography.
No, I am not rude, I just say what everyone else hasn't the balls to say

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fredericks

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Police!
It's the only way. Attitudes have changed.
Perhaps you would also be helping other models?

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